I Gave Too Much: Low Self-Esteem and the Regret of Sacrifices

Francesca Righetti*, Mariko Visserman

*Corresponding author for this work

Research output: Contribution to JournalArticleAcademicpeer-review

Abstract

Low self-esteem is often related to interpersonal difficulties. In fact, low self-esteem people fear rejection and tend to adopt self-protection goals. In the present work, we tested the idea that when low self-esteem individuals decide to sacrifice personal preferences for their relationship, they come to regret those actions, with further consequences for their well-being. We conducted a study with 130 couples, using experience sampling, daily diary, and a 1-year follow-up assessment. Results showed that low self-esteem is related to greater regret of past sacrifices, which, in turn, affects negative mood, stress, and life satisfaction. Furthermore, mediation analyses revealed that low self-esteem individuals feel less supported by the partner after they sacrifice, which helps explaining why they come to regret their sacrifices.

Original languageEnglish
Pages (from-to)453-460
Number of pages8
JournalSocial Psychological & Personality Science
Volume9
Issue number4
Early online date16 May 2017
DOIs
Publication statusPublished - 1 May 2018

Keywords

  • close relationships
  • perceived support
  • prosocial behavior
  • regret
  • sacrifice
  • self-esteem

Fingerprint

Dive into the research topics of 'I Gave Too Much: Low Self-Esteem and the Regret of Sacrifices'. Together they form a unique fingerprint.

Cite this